Absorption is a process of transformation to thoroughly change in form by engaging wholly and being swallowed up in the identity or individuality of Another

It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me.

                                                                            Galatians 2:20




Our Mission:

To spur on men, women, and teens to live radically transformed by, and wholly absorbed in the Lord, Jesus Christ. As a couple, we have a pursuit to see individuals, marriages, and families flourish as God designed.

As a writer, speaker, and counselor for a generation hurt by the world's lies, KJ Nally writes and teaches the truth about God, relationships, and life. She and husband, Dustin, fight for Godly families and marriages, advocate for adoption, and spur on teens to seek true fullness of life! They encourage men and women to flourish as they live for their Creator and Savior, Jesus Christ! KJ writes for magazines and blogs. She speaks at various places, including high schools, colleges, and churches for teens, young adults, and women's events. KJ is the author of The Storms of Life: Trusting God through Emotional Pains, Hurting Marriages, and Addictions; Absorbed: Becoming Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Intimate as God Designed; and a powerful adoption book called, The Thread: Adoption Stories Knit Together by Love. In God's grace, KJ and Dustin serve full time in ministry and joyfully raise their three boys. Dustin is a Discipleship Pastor with a passion to see believers thrive as they grow in Christ. Dustin and KJ received their Masters Degrees from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary.


Are you still happily married?

How important is your happiness?  Divorce is on the rise as more and more couples decide that their unhappiness in marriage is reason enough to separate.  Join KJ Nally as she explains in an interview with nationally-syndicated radio host and well-known clinical psychologist, Dr. Bill Maier, how God’s vision for marriage is about much more than our happiness.

Highlight of Interview - KJ Nally





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Founder and CEO, Charleston Hope

KJ's writing and teaching have been a constant factor in my walk with Christ. She's taught me what it means to be in a Godly relationship, how to love as Jesus loved, and the importance of staying pure in all that I do. The impact it has made on me has been life changing!


Pastor at Tulip Grove Baptist Church, Nashville

KJ Nally’s gift of transparency and heart-centered instruction to our young people applied the exclamation point to our Winter Retreat at First Baptist Church Hilton Head Island. As a Pastor, husband, and a father to two teenage daughters (and a college-aged son), I was exceptionally pleased to hear KJ talk of her journey with the Lord and the seasons of life that has brought her to share words with our youth today.  Her honesty, gentleness, and biblical truths are clear and passionately shared. It is with confidence that I would recommend KJ to share and speak at a youth conference or retreat.


Pastor at Lowcountry Community Church, Bluffton

KJ did a fantastic job communicating to our teens! Her message was clear and heartfelt as she shared timeless truths from God's Word about purity and holiness in a personal, relevant and engaging manner. Her sincerity and love for the Lord shines through all she does!



For speaking engagements or for any personal questions, you can reach us here: 

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